What Women Need To Know About Injecting Spontaneity Into Their Sex Life
No man likes a cold fish in his bed, and that is the first rule you should always take to heart. However, doing the same routine over and over again does make things a little boring. This does not mean though, that you cannot do anything about it. Because you can, and you must.
The trick is all about spontaneity. This may sound simple, but a lot of women actually find this as a big challenge. Some may struggle with it, just because they do not know how to go about being creative. Some may just be too tired after a long day at work. And others may just have no time for the extra effort.
But spontaneity really should not take too much time and effort. After all, it is all about going with the flow. It means being able to take on a sexual situation and make the most out of it. This is something every woman can do, and that includes you.
Make the first move
If you are in a sexual relationship where your man always initiates the act, make the first move and blow your man's mind away. Who knows, this may even be his sexual fantasy! You do not have to voice out that you are initiating the sexual act. Instead, do not be afraid to make suggestive acts. Greet him at the door with a passionate kiss, and see where things will lead you.
Make use of technology
If you feel the tiniest sexual urge, let your partner know by sending him a text message. Or give him a quick call perhaps. Email him a sweet and seductive message. Or, if you are the more adventurous type, take a picture of your sexy self and send it to him. Embrace your feelings and let him know about it. Take note though, to be extra careful when using technology. Make sure you have tight security protection on your computer files, or that he has lone access to his phone. That way, you are assured that what are for his eyes remain his alone.
Bring the sex outside
If you are used to making love inside the bedroom, heat things up a little bit and do the deed in the kitchen. Step in the shower with him and get some action there. The trick is to break the habit of making love in one place. That way, you will not only keep things interesting, you are also making memories that both of you will surely remember.
Stage a surprise
This would work especially for those who make love on a schedule. Throw that schedule out of the window and make it known to your partner that you intend to have sex when you need and want it. Book a hotel room and escape with him alone, no kids and pets in sight. Go to out of town trips where you can enjoy each other's company. Think of what you have not yet done as a couple and resolve to it.
Being spontaneous contributes a lot to your relationship. It helps your partner get to know you better, and affirms in him the fact that he made the right choice when he fell in love with you. Remember, spontaneity does not have to involve expensive things, time and energy. All it needs is for you to break your pattern and bring in some sexy fun.